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Plant Shadow
Plant Shadow
Foggy Lake


Being Human Is Harder Than it Looks

​Most of us are navigating patterns we didn't choose -

habits, reactions, ways of relating that made sense once and now just keep showing up.

The standard routes don't always help.

Sometimes they make it worse.

This is a space for something different.

 

 

Who I am

I'm Skates. I've spent over twenty years working with people — as a somatic practitioner, psychotherapist, and facilitator — and the thing that's stayed consistent across all of it is this: people don't need fixing. They need connection, honest reflection, and the space to figure things out without being managed.

I work predominantly with men, in groups and workshops, and through writing. The approach is simple — we bring what's real, we learn from each other, nobody's the expert in the room.

I also offer mentoring, coaching, supervision and reflective practice sessions for men & women, couples groups and organisations.

​​​​Brighton UK - based. Working nationally and internationally

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